How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 21.06.2025 00:06
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Hangs out with loser friends.
How do I come out as queer to my best friend in a funny and stupid way?
Making more friends is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
In the TV show Supernatural, why is God portrayed as cruel?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
What is your best gay fantasy?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Ask yourself:
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
What does it mean to you to live a life that reflects biblical values?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
What are the best examples of reverse psychology?
That's it for today.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Does not procrastinate.
Can men enjoy receiving anal sex?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
My friend asked my crush and he said my crush hates me but not in a rude way. What does that mean?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Procrastinates a lot.
Is it possible for buyers to negotiate after an inspection if the appraisal is lower than expected?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Why do I feel so tired all the time even after a good night’s sleep?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
What I need from you?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Do not set goals—set systems.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
What caused North Korea to go poor when at first it was rich?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.